Just like you, some times in my life I feel I should be going faster, sometimes feeling like things should slow down or even like life is stagnant. I decided to take control.
Life is a series of habits, and to make positive change, it requires breaking those habits and replacing them with positive ones. These all help to change the direction. This helped me to change direction.
The thing is sometimes it's hard to know what direction we should be going in. Once I figured that out for myself, I was able to start making a plan and working towards it. I can do the same for you.